Personally I got a good 6 month of peace and a general improvement in the relationship with that one. Fortunately, its all fine; no need get aggravated for that one. When it happens again, try to find out which category this drama session falls into by listening and observing.
Analyse if this drama is part of a bigger sequence of dramatic events or just the usual whining crap. Basically, the focus of the relationship slowly shifts from fun to boring because you always have a duty to take care of the unpleasant responsibilities in the most efficient way.